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If I Meet Someone
I Really Like, What Happens Next?
You've completed your first speed dating experience;
what happens next? If you've used a reputable speed dating
service, you should get your results within 24 hours. Then
you'll be staring at email addresses and trying to figure
out your next step. Suggest meeting for a drink or a casual
event that will take some of the pressure off of you both.
If you both went to the speed dating event with friends,
suggest a non-speed dating reunion at a local bar where you
can hang out and laugh over your shared experience.
Speed Dating Appearance
Speed dating is all about first impressions, so appearance
is especially important. You need to look your best and be
clean and well groomed. Find out where the event is being
held and match your dress to their code -- dress up for a
fancy restaurant, dress more casually for a bar. Remember, a
speed dating event is not the place to try out a new
hairstyle or fashion. You want to look your best, but you
still want to look like you.
The Speed Dating Mindset
The very nature of speed dating can create stress -- you
have to convince people to like you in 10 minutes or less.
To eliminate that stress, you have to approach speed dating
with the right mindset. Don't think of it as "your only
chance" or a "single opportunity." View the speed dating
event as something fun -- an absurd yet efficient way to
meet new people, and possibly meet that very special
someone. If you can laugh at the idea of speed dating, you
can take the pressure off of you. Then you can enjoy the
experience, and hopefully work your way successfully through
all of your dates.
Speed Date: How Am I Doing?
The beautiful thing about speed dating is that the feedback
is swift and sure. Within a few days of the event, speed
daters who expressed interest will be given each other's
contact information. But there are ways to judge whether or
not a speed date went well before you receive the official
feedback. If there is mingling after the event, you can talk
more with people who interested you; if they respond,
chances are the date went well. During the date, gauge their
interest by the questions they ask and their body language.
If they look bored, they probably are.
The Morning After a Bad Speed Date
A bad date is hard; a bad speed date is harder because you
have to date again in a matter of seconds! First things
first: if you have a bad speed date, relax. Take a deep
breath. And move on to the next date. Think of it as a fresh
start and have fun. Remember, one of the advantages of speed
dating is that bad dates don't have to last all night. If
you do have an entire evening of bad speed dating, take a
step back and ask yourself: What could have improved? Check
your speed dating company's website for tips on how to get
the most from your next experience. Remember that much of a
dating experience is beyond your control -- you can only
regulate your own actions and reactions. |
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